Spring break for my nine year old this week. Plan is to host play dates with his new friends from school so I have an idea and get to know his friends he loves and play with at school.

I usually take him to Legoland with a friend. But this time I need to get to know his new set of friends. He is attending a public school and is loving it with new set of friends. Very improtant for me to get to know the children he loves to play and not only that, I get to know parents of that child also.

As the world turning into , dunno where, but so cruel at times when I think about it, it is important for me to get to know whos parents are loving to their children and what not.

I live in a diverse community and very hard to find one family that I can really say, I love how she takes care of her child... But perhaps I am more uptight with a lot of things and needed to loosen up.  I have seen many children don't get to play with some other kids but stuck with the familiy and relatives.

So yesterday, my boy was able to play with one kid and I was able to get to know his mom as well. I rather have them come over where I can watch how they react and get to know them. The four hour and half wasn't enough for them so tehre will be another play day for that child on Friday. My boy is excited already.

Tomorrow I might have another boy come and I am hoping that his parent will stay for a little while.. if not then that tells me something about that family. Either way, I can't make judges as to what kind of people/ parents they are. We are all different and therefore I can't make judges. I can only make a possitive idea to my boy as to why I wouldn't want him to hang out with that child.

Have a safe day to all mothers and fathers outhere! some children are really dying to have some possitive influences around them..I know I am trying my best and I am sure you do too.

Happy Spring Break! to the one that are having right now!